In the Company of Grief

For most of my short life, I have been inexperienced with grief. I had encountered sad points in my life, certainly, but never a deep, soul-shaking grief. Not too long into our marriage, though, my hu…

A Pimp Told Me

Should I Let Her Know? Growing up, one of my favorite hip-hop artists was Talib Kweli. One of his lines from the song, “Hot Thing,” continues to stick with me: “I might be falling in love;…

Why Men Use Porn

Everything in our life has a narrative attached to it. A story. Things don’t happen in isolation, but are interconnected and fit within a storyline. This is also true for sex.  The narrative that God …